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Recipe Friday

Here is another recipe that was submitted to D-Feast Friday. (you can find the recipes by going to Bitter-Sweet Diabetes and clicking on the D-Feast Friday link on the left hand side) This one comes from Sweet Bites. I am personally not a big sweet potato fan, however my family loves them. I was thinking this might be a good one to make on the quick, which seems to be happening a lot lately!

*********Enjoy*********

Roasted Sweet Potato Salad with Grilled Chicken and Candied Pecans

(this recipe serves 2, so if you have a family you gotta do some math!)

1 sweet potato
1 tablespoon olive oil
1/2 teaspoon sea salt
1 teaspoon fresh rosemary
2 handfuls of candied pecans
2 grilled chicken breasts
mixed greens

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Slice sweet potato into 1/2-inch thick circles, then slice them in halves. In bowl, toss sweet potatoes with olive oil and salt. Spread sweet potato slices on a lined cookie sheet; bake until sweet potatoes are soft when pierced with a fork, about 30 minutes. In large bowl, combine mixed greens, rosemary, pecans, sweet potatoes and your favorite vinaigrette; toss until greens are coated. Divide salad onto two plates; top each with chicken breast. Serves 2

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My Man Mike

You know what I noticed yesterday when I went back to read the story about my family with the kids? It’s all about me and I and Kelsey and Marty. Sometimes I say the kids and a lot of the times I say us, but I never ever mention my husband. That didn’t make me feel too hot.

If it weren’t for Mike I wouldn’t be blogging or have an e-commerce site or be on cafe press…A year ago he set me up on DiabeticDuo. I had no clue how to do it and honestly didn’t care…”Handle it Roy” and point me in the right direction has always been my motto. Just yesterday I sent him this email.

To: Mike
Subject: I want one…

Hey…go to Meri and Reyna’s sites. See those cool buttons for the other mommy blogs? I want one…..can I have it?

His response, one word “ok”. But I know he was at his desk at work shaking his head…when is she going to let me do MY STUFF!

Then there is MedAware. Now we have very little, like none, money to spare so we had to go with a free e-commerce site. Mike knew a little about programming but had to learn more to make the site bend the way we needed it to. Setting it up and then adding in all of the items took months and months. Then we had to take new pictures, and I add one to two new items a month…and I seem to always be asking him to “build me this” “can you add that”. Sigh….OK…..{when is she going to let me do MY STUFF?} And guess what, he has just started to rebuild the site so it’s not so butt ugly. But I swear it’s all his doing, I didn’t ask for a new one. Well, I do keep asking him to tweek things..but they are just minor really…I never asked for a new site…just going on record…even though it would be nice.

We finally found a good free newsletter format to use for MedAware. Again, “Handle it Roy” and point me in the right direction. However it still went out without the header and he was none too happy about that. There is always next month…hehe. BTW, there is only 4 weeks until the next newsletter….you should get crackin on the next comic strip.

Mike also has been doing some designs for Cafe Press. We had individual sites, one for DiabeticDuo and one for his Cyrptolicous stuff but he has since combined them so it’s easier to manage. So far his product is outselling mine. I think I knew that going in….Big Foot, the Skunk Ape and the New Jersey Devil are much more interesting than my witty D-comments.

Well, in the end none of what I am doing would be possible without my husband Mike. He is constantly behind the scenes bringing my ideas to life. Even though I don’t mention him often, he is there doing SOMETHING for me. He is an amazing man who supports all of my crazy ideas. I am one lucky chica and I should tell the world more often.

So, uhm, Honeeeyyyyy? Can I have that button? Well, first I am thinking about having a new logo and then revaming the DD site…do you mind? Then can I have the button?

 

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The Diabetic Duo has been Featured!

Hey will you look at that! Leighann over at D-Mom Blog has featured The Diabetic Duo on her site. Pretty Cool!!!

I invite you to read about Renata, and then visit her blog The Diabetic Duo. Not only is she an expat living in New Zealand, but she has two teenagers with type 1 diabetes. You can also follow her on Twitter; she’s @DiabeticDuo.

I’d like to introduce you to Renata of The Diabetic Duo.

Tell me something about your children.

Both of my children are really funny. Very witty and make me laugh at times when it’s probably not appropriate to do so.

Renata's Children

How old were your children when diagnosed?

Kelsey was four and Marty was nine.

How were your children diagnosed?

I was completely clueless with Kelsey. We were going through a big custody battle over her (I’m her stepmom) and all I knew was that she was sick and she looked worse and worse every time I went to pick her up. I won’t get into the details because it’s a pretty brutal story, but my husband had a voice mail on his office phone when he showed up to work one Monday morning. Let’s just say obtaining custody was pretty straight forward after that stunt. I do remember being an overwhelmed new mom of a child with a disease I knew nothing about. It brought Kelsey and I together pretty quickly; we all were learning to love and take care of each other. It was a lot to take in, but we rallied as we Porters tend to do.

Martin’s hit me just me like a ton of bricks. He was allergic to red dye for the first six years of his life then he moved into epilepsy. I had just pulled Marty out of the neurology department because I knew in my gut something wasn’t right. I never once felt it was epilepsy. We finally figured it was most likely sleep apnea and had surgery scheduled for his tonsils and adenoids to be removed. All the weight lifted, so I thought. We were sitting at the movie theater a couple of days later and Marty had finished his gigantic diet coke, gone to the bathroom and started drinking mine. I remember yelling at him to not be so greedy and him crying because he was thirsty. My heart just sank. All four of us left the theater, sat at a table and tested him with Kelsey’s meter. People swirling around us all happy with their cokes and popcorn and we just had the rug pulled out from under us again. And…that was that, we got up and went straight to the hospital.

How have your children’s life changed since diagnosis?

You can read more by going here. Leighann asks quite a few questions including ones on comparing care and coverage since moving to New Zealand.

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New D-Parent Social Network

There is a new Diabetes Social Network in town, but this one is for D-Parents of Type 1 Kids.

http://dmomblog.ning.com/

This site was started by our fellow blogger Leighann from D-Mom. I belong to TuDiabetes and I love that network. It helps me get a better understanding of what life is like to be a diabetic, however I feel like I miss out as a parent of one….then in comes the D-Mom and D-Dad Connection.

If you are a parent of a diabetic, you should join the network. It is new, brand new, but I can already tell it’s going to be an informative and uplifting site for parents. You will be able to meet other parents, share stories or videos, join groups that interest you, and find events in your local area. Now you can be as involved as you wish, you can post and comment to your hearts content or you can just visit and read. No matter what route you take, being involved will be educational and uplifting.

I currently have joined 4 groups, have made a blog post and have added a few friends. Be sure to add me as a friend.

Hey You, Kiwi’s! The diabetes online community is huge and full of amazing people waiting to share what they know. You would be amased at how well they respond to difficult questions…because you know what…we have all been there in some way or fashion. If you are sitting at home wishing you had help, sign up. If you are sitting at home and just want to hear you aren’t alone, sign up. If you feel you have a lot to share but aren’t quite ready for your own blog yet, sign up. There is even a group dedicated to New Zealand, so you can get in touch with other Kiwi Parents.

Thank you Leighann for starting the D-Mom and D-Dad Connection. I can’t wait to see where it goes.

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Pineapple Chicken Chili

I grabbed this recipe from Your Diabetes May Vary. We love chili and even though we are moving towards spring here in NZ, you would never know it by looking at this past weeks weather. I am intrigued by the sweetness of the pineapple and the hot chili powders. Can’t wait to make it, hope you enjoy.

Pineapple Chicken Chili
3 or 4 chicken breasts cut to ¾” cubes
1 large sweet onion
2 tablespoons cooking oil
2 – 20 oz cans chunk pineapple
2 – 12 oz tomato paste
1- 28 oz can diced tomato
3 – 12 oz can small beans
3 tablespoons ancho chili powder*
3 tablespoons garlic powder*
1 tablespoon passila chili powder* (or more ancho or cayenne if you can’t find passila)
1 tablespoon cayenne chili 2 teaspoons paprika *
1 teaspoons ginger powder*
3-4 fine chopped jalapeño peppers*

*Your taste may vary so maybe work your way up if your not a fan of hot. Dice the onion and sauté in a large pot in the cooking oil to translucent. Toss in the chicken and the syrup from the cans of pineapple. Reserve the pineapple chucks. Poach the chicken in the pineapple syrup until cooked through.

Mix in the cans of tomato, tomato paste, beans. Mix in the amount of the spices your comfortable with. You can always ad more. Let it all simmer for a few hours. If you’re not getting a nice back of the throat heat, add more chili. Add the pineapple.

The sweetness of the pineapple chunks will temper some of the heat of the finished product. So will some sour cream.

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To Treat or to Not Treat

This subject is as old as diabetes itself I would imagine, but it amased (going with my Kiwi spellings here, be patient with what looks to be misspelled or should I say misspelt) Let me start again. It amased me at how many parents still struggle over whether or not to let their kids participate in holiday treats.

One of the questions on the parents panel this weekend was about how we handle holidays and the amount of food and treats that are offered up. Now let me preface that what is coming next is my OPINION, if you disagree that’s fine. One of the parents response’s was that up until her child was an older teenager she would take his candy give it to another sibling and replace it with sugar free. The first thought that popped into my head was “Are you F’n nuts?” So, I am a firm believer that everyone needs to eat the best they can…diabetic or not. Do we wall participate in treats, yep. So, why would anyone deny a T1 from treats. A T2 until they got their weight under control, I can see that…but a T1 and a child T1 to boot? Treats are a part of the holidays, school parties, desserts at restaurants, and then pick an event…any event…amusement park, the movies….the list could go on. So as a parent of a child, any child, you would limit the intake not deny it.

Here is my reasoning for this. Forget the diet, let’s talk about guilt. Kids are kids and they want to be normal. So if Mom says you can’t have that bring it home and I will give you sugar free…yeah, right. They are going to sneak even if it’s one little tiny piece. They want to be like everyone else and maybe just this once they want to taste real sugar. So from my point of view you may end up with a kid that feels guilty for sneaking “I am a bad diabetic” or a kid who feels guilty for lying to their parents “I shouldn’t lie about that cupcake I had at school” or feeling guilty about both. That is a whole lot of pressure to put a kid under and to top it off you haven’t taught them how to safely monitor and judge their intake. To me, that is just a whole lot of mental BS and long term repercussions for what…because you didn’t want them to add in one extra unit of insulin? Expecting that perfect no sugar behavior is not real, it’s not right and you are setting your kids up for failure.  

Now see those candy canes? Yeah I buy them.  I try to do sugar free where I can and we use Splenda where we can, so I am not saying you shouldn’t reduce the sugar intake. But it should be a family effort meaning everyone watches what they eat. And if one partakes and the D kid wishes to partake, then they should. It’s all about balance and monitoring. And the sooner you teach your kids to be responsible for what they eat (in reality) the better.

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Friend Training

Something that came up quite a bit from the children at the conference was about how we as parents talk about THEIR disease with THEIR friends. Some said that their parents went overboard making a big deal out of making sure everyone watched as their child tested or took a shot. It made me wonder what kind of parent I was.

Am I pushy? Do I do enough? I don’t think I am pushy, but I have given ”training sessions” to Kelsey’s friends when she started to go out to parties and big sleepovers. (teenage sleepovers are common here…uh huh, I know what you are thinking because that’s what I think too…) Anyhow, what I end up doing is asking Kelsey to plan a night to gather the few friends she is with all of the time. They have already seen her test and take shots. As you know, my kids don’t hide a thing. What I try to go over are signs to look for and that if there is drinking going on to not automatically assume she is drunk. Kelsey teaches them how to test her and how to use a glucogon. Lastly, I give them my cell phone number. Do you think that is being pushy? (Now ask me if I care) I will say that I still haven’t held a training session since we have been in our new house. And I need to because summer is just around the corner, but I am interested in your thoughts before I do so.

Marty really isn’t at the stage of going out on his own a lot. He stays after school to play which causes him to have to walk home…which I am not excited about but I am trying to allow him some freedom. So the deal is he tests before he starts to play and he tests before he starts to walk home and txts me both times. I have discussed (as he pointed out on panel) with his classroom to watch out for signs that seem odd for Marty. Like getting overly upset about nothing or getting angry or over the top happy. However, those emotions pretty much describe every pre-teen don’t they? In the end I haven’t really done anything with his friends because he isn’t quite at that stage yet.

I guess I am probably a mix of being prepared and not doing enough. I don’t yell out for people to watch my kids, that’s just odd to me. It would be like yelling for everyone to watch them brush their teeth. What kind of Friend Training do you do?

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DYNZ Conference

This weekend was full of excitement and laughter. There was a lot of smiling and hand shaking and even more introductions of my family. I have to say it was really a nice weekend. We learned a lot about others and just as much about ourselves. I know that sounds odd…but you will understand shortly.

We drove down to Rotorua from Auckland early on Friday. It was really cool driving into town and seeing all of the steam billowing out from what seemed like everywhere. When we told friends we where we were going we were told two things. One, Rotorua was the little Vegas of New Zealand. Two, the town STUNK. That it would have the rotten egg smell from hell. I can’t say either one of those were true. I was happy it was nothing like Vegas. It had charm and quaintness (is that a word?) And yeah, it was a bit stinky but we weren’t put off by it at all. Let’s just say I have smelled worse. (I have been married for 10 years…that’s all I’m going to say)

Friday night Mike and I attended the AGM. Things went very smoothly and it was nice to see new committee members voted in. (I am only going to use first names because I haven’t asked if I can talk about them.) DYNZ now has a new President and Vice President, Hayden and Karen. Several of the current committee members have thankfully kept their seats and I was voted in as the Region 1 Rep. There was a really good discussion about the future of DYNZ and how it plans to position itself for advocating in areas where youth Diabetics need help the most…having enough medical staff throughout the country, family financial support and ensuring the national and local orgs work to better communicate with each other.

Saturday was an absolutely packed day. We got up early and set up our home grown booth for MedAware. Boy we looked pitiful next to all those other companies…but I will say this…we were busy from start to finish. I am very proud of Mike Kelsey and Marty, they jumped right in and started talking to everyone who came up. You could see the pride they have in our product line and answered every question. A little shaky at first but then they got to rockin. I was able to walk in and out without a worry on how they handled themselves. The conference itself was MC’d by fellow blogger Nic Reade.  We listened to several different speeches from professionals who shared their knowledge. We heard from a nurse who shared her own stories about growing up with diabetes (and how she dealt with her own denial), a doctor that explained what new scientific studies are going on right now to find a cure for diabetes, and a psychologist that took us through some basic behaviours of diabetics. We were fed a beautiful lunch and had a great night mingling with each other followed by another wonderful meal.

For me Sunday was the best day. (and I am not just saying that because the Porter’s got to participate) Sunday was the day where there were several panels and people shared their experiences (some more than others..ahem mic hogs you know who you are!) and the audience got to ask questions.

The first panel was a group of older women who have had diabetes for many years. They told stories about how gigantic the testing meters were and how they managed (and not managed) their diabetes when they were younger. They discussed how the treatment of the disease has changed and how they delt and deal with their doctors. The woman on the end speaking was a hoot. (I apologise, I can’t find my sheet of names…..please write in and tell me the names if you can) She has been pumping for 25 years and told us a story about how a doctor told her that wearing a pump was “excessive”. All of them had great stories to share and we learned quite a bit.

The second panel was made up mostly by children. There were 4 teenagers a champion sprint cyclist, a kid who is involved in hip hop, and then Kelsey and girl representing the average teen. (again, I have lost my list of names!) There was Marty, the youngest one and Heidi-Jane the oldest one. I think this group made the audience laugh the most. Jordan (the hip hopper) told us about how when he started to tell everyone he was diabetic one friend thought that meant he couldn’t eat meat. The cyclist and Heidi-Jane were able to talk to doing sports in and out of school and how they manage their diabetes accordingly. Heidi-Jane also gave us a teachers perspective. I have to say this was one of my proudest moments to date as a parent. My kids did so well. Kelsey spoke clearly, didn’t hold any punches (thanks) and was interactive with the audience. If she was nervous you couldn’t tell at all. Then there was Marty. (mommy facepalm) I have to say he did great for an 11 year old boy. However, he didn’t quite stay on topic and he got to tell stories which is what he does. He made the audience laugh and if you ask him he “killed” on stage. He is bitten by the bug, so I expect him to be in drama next year in high school. It was nice to see them up there together and her helping him out when he got nervous. Many parents came up and told me how well they did which just made my heart sing. Surprisingly though….not one question about Kelsey being bald.

The last panel was of parents. We didn’t get to say a whole lot, but it was nice to see parents willing to get up and speak. One of the best questions was about the holiday and how we handle treats. Almost all of us agreed that we let our kids participate and that denying your children the opportunity to share in the sweets isn’t going to work out too well in the end. It’s all about management.

The conference ended with a nice lunch and a last chance mingle. Our booth was packed all the way up to the end. THANK YOU to everyone who came by. We appreciate your supporting us. A huge thank you to Chris who organised the event. If there were any blips no one knew. Everything went smoothly.

Mike and I decided to go ahead and let the kids have one bit of fun before we left town. We took them to the Zorb. Now it’s a pretty expensive one time ride, but as Kelsey put it….”I almost hurled, I don’t think I could have done it again.” The kids were strapped in so they actually rotated end over end with the ball. There is a wet ride where you slide with it keeping your head up the entire time…be we didn’t have suits. They had a blast….

 

We ended the weekend with a quick trip home with us singing along with the radio the whole way. All in all it was an awesome weekend. I learned a lot about the New Zealand Diabetic Community and even more about my family and couldn’t be any prouder.

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Heading to Rotorua

The family is packing up to head to the Diabetes Youth New Zealand (DYNZ) conference this weekend in Rotorua. This will be our first big diabetes thing since being in NZ. I will be there in several capacities. I have been nominated to the committee of DYNZ as the Region 1 Rep (Auckland and Northland). My nomination will be actually voted in at the AGM. I will also help with the conference and be a part of the panel discussion on Sunday. I am stoked about that, it will be my first time speaking to an audience as a parent. When I am up in front of people I am usually the facilitator (or MC) or I am teaching something. This should be fun. This is also the first time we will be showing off MedAware. Even though we are doing it with no marketing materials, we are going to be there. Unfortunately MedAware is still costing me more than we are making. But I know this event will help put tremendously. I hope…it better. I am expecting Mike and the kids will be running the booth most of the time and I will be in and out. I am taking them through product training tonight. That should be fun.

I hope that we are able to get in some site seeing too. Rotorua is a volcanic town. There are supposed to be all kinds of attractions and things to see. We will be doing anything we can that is free. I heard there was a trail we can take that walks you through all the hot pool and bubbling mud thingamabobs. I would like to treat the kids to one thing. Maybe the Zorb. That’s where they get into this gigantic plastic ball and roll down the hill.

At any rate, I hope to have all kinds of fun things to report on Monday.

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Another All Over the Place Post

1. Kelsey had an afternoon of lows that I couldn’t figure out. And I mean LOW 2.1′s (37) and I kep feeding her and all she cared about was getting back on the phone. I was left thinking she is going to be 17 in a week. Am I ever going to be able to let go?

2. I think I have lost my mind. While I am excited about the 4 ocean swims I am planning on doing starting in November….I have this thought in the back of my head that I have truly lost it.

3. So my dryer has been broken for almost 2 weeks now. If you will remember I spent the first year here without a dryer. But in this house I have no humidifier and it’s rainy season. Fricken 3 GD days for jeans to dry. NOT HAPPY

4. Why on earth is it SO DAMN IMPORTANT for Martin to play games in the mud? He has two uniforms…and he comes home covered in mud every day…(and I have no dryer)

5. You know what my biggest worry is about the ocean swims? Sharks? Nah. The cold water? Not really. Finishing at the back of the pack? Nope I am more concerned about what my fat ass is going to look like in a wet suit. I am 45 years old, seriously why do I care about such a stupid thing?

6. Kelsey is shaving her head in less than 6 hours for the Leukaemia and Blood Org here in NZ. I am proud of her, but also dreading the after shock. Let us Pray “Dear Lord, please let Kelsey’s head be round underneath all that hair. Please allow her to feel secure in her baldness so I am not dealing with a teenage banshee freak out before school every morning. And if you could send a dryer repairman my way I promise to not swear at my kids for a month…a week….ok, a day.”

7. As you can tell I am still stuck in a writers funk. Eh…maybe tomorrow will bring brilliant thoughts.

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